How would you want your wedding night to be? A night that’s full of romance, candles, and sexy surprises? To have the dream wedding night that you’ve been dreaming about, start planning your wedding night ahead of time. You have to keep in mind that there is almost always something that could go wrong, even though you plan in beforehand. Do not let your wedding stress screw up this special night, just laugh it off and take it easy to enjoy your wedding night.  Today, it becomes very common for couples to live together before getting married. Couples often miss the fact that there are a lot of little things that could make this night a big ‘wow’.

Bridal Lingerie

No matter what size you are or how self-conscious you are, you can always find some great choices at online lingerie sites or lingerie stores. You should pick lingerie that you feel comfortable with and most importantly, lingerie that is easy to put on because you may be very exhausted after the wedding. Choosing bridal lingerie is like choosing a dessert. Something sweet, delectable, and out of the ordinary, go for lingerie that you both like, that way you can create a fun and sexy night. You can also personalize your bridal lingerie with any messages you want such as your new married name, “I Love You” or “I’m Yours”.

Sexy Games

By trying something new and fun in the boudoir, you can really spice up your love life. Well, you can either make your own games or you can go for traditional games such as taste-testing (prepares an assortment of delicious treats and blindfolds your partner) and stripping. The more you enjoy the games, the more you get to know each other.  These fun and sexy games can also make you forget your wedding stress and make both of you relax for your wedding night.

Spice-Up the Bath Tub

To make sure that you have a wonderful wedding night, a nice soak in the bath tub with the combination of scent, texture, color, and music is a must. You have to make sure that the hot tub is large enough to accommodate both of you comfortably, so let your hubby know to book a nice hotel ahead of time. Another plus of this great idea is that you can relax after your long wedding day. A bowl of chocolate truffles, chocolate-covered strawberries, nice wine or campaign and other succulent snacks by the tub to nibble on.

Flirt with Each Other During the Wedding

No matter how busy you are during your wedding, make sure you spare some time to talk to each other, steal some kisses, flirt with each other, and stare into each other’s eyes. This will keep both of you focused on each other and look forward for the wedding night. Of course your closest friends and family are all around you during the day, but make an active effort to remain next to your beau the whole time and show them that you love them and are happy to be getting married to them.

Set the Night by Making a Love List

Play your partner’s favorite music or play some soft music in the background when entering your wedding night suite. Light some candles and scatter rose petals. You can create a DVD of yourself ahead of time telling your partner all the things you love about him/her or you can write it down and read it out loud. Let your partner know how much you love him/her and you are ready to spend the rest of your life with him/her. After your love list, you’re sure to be in each others’ arms for the entire night!

The wedding night can be just as special and memorable as your wedding day. Keep in mind that after the long wedding day, your partner may feel exhausted and want to go straight to bed. Be understanding and thoughtful, it is not a sign of doomed marriage, you might just have to try a little to spice them up. Enjoy your wedding night!

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